40 DAYS

There are times when something in our lives asks for our attention.

A decision. A relationship. Our work. A pattern we keep meeting. A desire we haven’t acted on. Or simply the feeling that something wants to change.

40 Days is a period of one-to-one work devoted to whatever is asking for your attention now.

We begin by noticing.

What is here? What keeps presenting itself? What might you already know, but haven’t quite been listening to?

Together, we create some space around it. To listen more closely. To see what we may not be able to see on our own. To consider what’s possible.

Sometimes seeing something differently is enough to change our relationship to it. Other times, we need something new—a perspective, a practice, a skill, or another way of being with what is here.

From there, we choose.

We act.

We notice what happens.

And we begin again.

Beginning · Notice + Listen

Our first conversation is a place to slow things down and pay attention to what is actually here.

We’ll explore what you’re experiencing, what may be beneath it, and what you already know when you give yourself enough space to listen.

There doesn’t need to be a perfectly articulated goal.

Only something you’re willing to give your attention to for the next 40 days.

Middle · Choose + Act

Life becomes part of the work.

By our second conversation, you’ve had time to notice yourself in the midst of it. What you’re moving toward. What you’re moving away from. What feels clear. What doesn’t.

Together, we look at what has emerged and what might be needed now.

That may be a new perspective. A practice. A skill to develop. A different way of relating to yourself or another person. Sometimes it’s less about what you need to do and more about the place within yourself from which you are doing it.

We explore what you may need in order to meet the moment differently.

Then you choose what to practice, try, say, do—or perhaps stop doing—and take that back into your life.

End · Observe + Integrate

Our final conversation is a time to look at what happened.

Not whether you got it right.

What changed? What surprised you? What did your choices reveal? What became available to you that wasn’t available before? What can you see now that you couldn’t see at the beginning?

And perhaps,

What do you know now?

The space between

Our three conversations are anchors, but much of the work happens between them.

For 40 days, we stay in contact through simple, regular touch points—small invitations to pay attention to what is happening as you are living it.

To notice.

To listen.

To choose.

To act.

To observe.

You can share what is arising with me along the way, and each week we’ll make space to reflect on where you are, what you’re seeing, and what might support you in meeting what comes next.

This isn’t about spending 40 days trying to become someone else.

It’s about paying closer attention to the life you’re already in, developing greater capacity to meet what is here, and becoming more conscious of how you choose to move within it.

The offering

40 days

Three private conversations, in person or online.
Regular contact and weekly touch points throughout our time together.
$888

There is a beginning.

There is a middle.

There is an end.

For 40 days, we give something in your life our attention.

We notice. We listen. We practice. We choose. We act. We observe.

And we see what becomes possible.